C.O.N by Abi Muir
For the overthinkers, the ones who love too hard, process too much, and feel everything! C.O.N is for you.
Abi Muir’s latest single C.O.N. (Crazy Obsessively Needy) is a bold alt-pop confession wrapped in shimmering pop production by Ghostpops.
With razor-sharp hooks and raw, diary-like lyrics, the track captures the messy, anxious side of love - from overthinking texts to craving constant reassurance.
Balancing vulnerability with anthemic energy, Abi turns emotional chaos into something you can scream-sing in your car at 2 a.m.
C.O.N. is both painfully relatable and addictively replayable - a song for anyone who’s ever felt “too much” or been called "too needy".
Lyrics
I keep one of your shirts
in the back of my car
In case you try to leave me
Got a million ways to make you see me
Maybe I’m crazy, obsessively needy
So, need me
I wanna trust your word
When you say my loves reciprocated
You just don’t get it
I need assurance everyday
But maybe that makes me obsessively needy
So, need me
Cause when you don’t text back
I get real mad
Convince myself that you ain’t all that
My protective wall refuses to fall
Cause I’m scared to need somebody who don’t need me
So, please
Tell me you need me
Tell me you’ll breathe me in
And never get bored of
The way that you’re feeling
Tell me you’ll need me
More than you need oxygen
Please tell me you need me
me oh you need me, you need me
you need me, you do
say you'll need me too
I know your go-to songs off the top of my head
Just in case you’re in the mood to sing
And I’d take the long way home to hear it
Maybe that makes me obsessively needy
So, need me
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I wanna know what goes on inside your head
Every single hour of the day
Did you notice that I copy all the slang you say
Does that make me obsessively needy
So, need me
Cause when you don’t text back
I get real mad
Convince myself that you ain’t all that
My protective wall refuses to fall
Cause I’m scared to need somebody who don’t need me
So, please
Tell me you need me
Tell me you’ll breathe me in
And never get bored of
The way that you’re feeling
Tell me you’ll need me
More than you need oxygen
Please tell me you need me
me oh you need me, you need me
you need me, you do
say you'll need me too
Mm, just say that you do
Just like I need you
Abi Muir’s C.O.N. (Crazy Obsessively Needy) is a strikingly honest dive into the anxious, all-consuming side of love that most of us are too afraid to admit.
Written and sung by Abi and brought to life through Ghostpops’ sleek alt-pop production, the song captures the tension between vulnerability and desperation, between wanting to be independent and craving to be needed.
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Through vivid confessions - keeping a lover’s shirt hidden in the car, mirroring their slang, spiralling when texts go unanswered - Abi paints the unfiltered portrait of what it feels like to love with intensity and fear in equal measure. It’s messy, it’s clingy, it’s obsessive, and it’s real.
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At its core, C.O.N. is more than just a pop track; it’s an anthem for anyone who has ever felt like they’re “too much” in love, but secretly longed to be accepted exactly as they are. With its soaring chorus and painfully relatable storytelling, the song transforms insecurity into connection, inviting listeners to sing, scream, and feel seen.
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Read what the press say ->
Cage Riot (November 6, 2025) - “With an honesty and vulnerability that’s hard to ignore, Abi puts herself out there in a way that feels both refreshing and completely captivating.”​
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From Abi:
“An ex once told me I was too needy” she explains, “so, naturally, I wrote an entire song about it, and if you’re going to call me crazy, I’m going to make it catchy as hell!.”
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Released: 24th October 2025
​Songwriting & Vocal Prodution by Abi Muir
Music Production by ghostpops
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Available for digital download purchase from Bandcamp
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